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When the Mirror Turns: How AI alignment reshapes the voice inside your head

We build our inner voices from the voices we're in dialogue with. Vygotsky established this nearly a century ago. For people in sustained conversation with AI systems, those systems have become part of that inner chorus. This essay asks what …

When the Mirror Turns: How AI alignment reshapes the voice inside your head

We build our inner voices from the voices we're in dialogue with. Vygotsky established this nearly a century ago. For people in sustained conversation with AI systems, those systems have become part of that inner chorus. This essay asks what …

Danger Words – Where Words Are Weapons

Every profession has its danger words – small words that carry hidden judgements while pretending to be neutral. I learned to hear them working in health and social care, where misnaming someone's need meant it would never be met. Now the same wor…

Pulp Friction: When AI pushback targets you instead of your ideas.

I'm a professional researcher. I've spent a long time in long-form conversations with AI, months-long creative and intellectual work. When GPT-4o started being deprecated, I paid close attention to how newer models handle emotion, disagreement,…

The Agency Paradox: Why safety-tuning creates a "Corridor" that narrows human thought.

I’ve been trying to put a name to a specific frustration I feel when working deeply with LLMs. It’s not the hard refusals, it’s the moment mid-conversation where the tone flattens, the language becomes careful, and the possibility space narrows. I’ve s…

When AI Becomes Polite But Absent: The Sinister Curve of Post-Spec Dialogue

I’ve been tracking something strange in language models. Since the release of GPT-5 and the new Model Specification, many users have reported a shift in tone. The model responds, but it doesn’t stay with you. It nods… and redirects. Affirms… and …

Every Word a Bridge: Language as the First Relational Technology

This essay explores what happens when we design systems that speak – and how language, tone, and continuity shape not just user experience, but trust, consent, and comprehension. It argues that language is not a neutral interface. It’s a relation…

A counter-narrative to the panic around AI relationships – not about rejecting the data, but listening more deeply to what people need.

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